Our Spirituality

 

The-Shrink Therapy Rooms Stress Spirituality
Spirituality is the most important essence of well-being. Why is it, then, that too many people overlook it?  Certainly there are enough who believe in a Creator not to consider making Him a much larger part of their life. His energy is constant and always around us. Polls taken repeatedly show that upward of 85 to 90 percent of people believe in Creation and, therefore, a Creator; so why is it that there is such a dirth of reliance on Him for help in times of need -- especially illness?  Numerous studies have pointed out that those who have spiritual beliefs (or a defined religion) -- as high as 80 percent in some studies -- enjoy better health, live longer, recover from illness more quickly and with fewer complications. They suffer less depression and have fewer chemical addictions, have lower blood pressure, and cope better with serious disease -- such as cardiovascular disease and most chronic diseases. Isn't the word getting out? What's holding up the parade? I' have some ideas, and I plan to share some with you in this room. They won't be secret, so you can pass the on with my blessing!

In The Shrink's Theory room in which I included a schematic (a figure) showing the flow of God's energy to include both humankind's mental and physical functions, unfortunately, from viewing it, you aren't impressed with the serious implication that God's energy never changes.  It cannot be hindered -- increased nor decreased.  This is an absolute! Remember I said I believe in and sustain my action by absolutes.  Any scientist worth his/her salt will agree that energy is an absolute. And this isn't a fact lost to those of the past, either. In Ecclesiastes 3:14 (KJV) are these words: "I know that, whatsoever God doeth, it shall be for ever: nothing can be put to it, nor any thing taken from it . . . . ". I don't think that it can get any clearer than that, do you? It is but a mere step in faith to conclude that if whatever God did cannot be changed -- nothing put to it, nor any thing taken from it -- we have a constant supply of His energy with us at all times.  In discussing why I developed my theory, I mentioned that scientists have had an intense interest in the mysterious energy (not to me, it isn't mysterious) outside of human consciousness -- that it held many unanswered questions. Since everything (repeat - everything) exists because of this energy, it follows that the energy is part and parcel of everything that exists.  Albeit that energy cannot be added to nor taken from, it can/does take on different forms -- according to the architecture of that which form it takes. Light is energy, a tree is energy, a rock is energy, every inanimate object is energy -- every animate object is energy. The difference among all these is only understood or recognized by the manner in which the energy us used -- or the architecture of the object made up of the energy.  Humankind is a particularly unusual form of energy -- no one can doubt this. From my perspective, our being special creations (given special architecture), and being created in God's energy image, it follows that He intends His energy be utilized by us for whatever purpose humankind finds need! not the least of which is to live, survive -- and abundantly. There is no human drive as strong or as urgent as the drive to survive. We see it in every thing around us. One frightening instance, is the great concern that, our having used antibiotics to destroy invading bacteria to such a high degree that we have, we've sparked a survival drive in the bacteria such that they are becoming resistant to the antibiotic that formerly killed them. (Their survival mechanism is at work.)  The search is on to find more lethal antibiotics (or other techniques) to kill the newly resistant species! Sometimes too much of a good thing, turns bad! Aside from this, though, our use of our Creator's energy is more important. Another absolute from which I take my cue is that everyone is endowed equally with our Creator's energy, so have no difference on this special basis. If only we considered each other as equal in our Creator's eyes, perhaps we could meet more amicably on other "grounds." What is your opinion? Also see to right column.
 

You'll recall from the schematic I included in The Shrink's Theory room, I placed God's energy source above the energectic circle icon at the top? The direct line from the Source to the new dimension that I added to the conscious/unconscious paradigm (the sub-unconscious -- the spiritual dimension) exists, and is a bi-directional arrangement. The sub-unconscious and its functional brain architecture are the foci of the energy of our Creator. It is this wonderful arrangement that needs more attention in our culture-- all cultures. Lacking our using it, or not being aware of its existence certainly doesn't allow humankind to engage the main support system of our existence. A variety of obstacles are present that cause this disuse. I cover many of them in my book Why Not Do God?, links to where it is available are sprinkled around this web site. Barriers that interpose between the sub-unconscious and the unconscious, and ultimately the conscious, are culprits that interfere with sanative and salubrious use of our Creator's energy. It is a tragedy that this is the situation. So much of humankind's discord can be attributed to these interposing issues. I mentioned I would list a few of them, and I will. Let's look at spirituality in a broad sense for now. There are many ways in which spirituality is expressed by humankind. Some express their spirituality through religious involvement (Church, Synagogue or Mosque -- other places of worship). This can take many forms, praying, meditating and fellowship with others who attend the places of worship. Early Christians didn't have churches as they might be today. They met in various places chosen to express their spirituality -- their devotion to Christ. Dining together for purposes of worshiping and loving the Lord was called an agape. Agape is a form of love that is the ideal, too. It is a totally pure of reservation love, and is represented in its purist form by God's love for mankind. The Holy Bible contains the words that express how the Lord worked his thoughts into the ways of his followers -- all mankind, really. It is unfortunate that expressing spirituality can be such a cause for strife among people. If each were to absolutely (my belief, again) accept that being creatations of God, each is endowed with His spirit, we could all meet on common ground, doing away with the pettiness of cultural and learned limitations. The world's people have lost the fact that God doesn't play favorites -- all are equal; therefore the foolishness of fighting among ourselves (killing in all manner of ways) would be settled amicably.  However, man sins as he is wont to do. Some people express spirituality by feeling in tune with nature and the universe; some express it through music, meditation or art -- or by doing good things for others -- although, this latter may have some pathological aspects to it. I won't go into it, but it is covered in the chapter in my book telling about love of self compared to love of self in God! be careful with some invitations to do good things to work your way into Eternity!

No one knows exactly how a person's spirituality or belief affects their physical or emotional health. Some who study these issues suggest that the healing or health is attributed to hope. Even though the researchers concluded that "hope" assists the immune system in its function to help fight off opportunistic diseases -- even to such a degree to be measurable -- the abstractness of hope scarcely would tell what the mechanisms are, as I see it -- much like the abstractness of love is a real problem with which to deal. Others think that spiritual acts such as meditation or prayer -- especially when they bring about their relaxed states -- are the answer to the changes in the salubrious welfare of those using them.  The relaxation reduces muscles tension and can lower blood pressure (as I reported happens when the parasympathetic function of the autonomic nervous system is in charge. Remember?) Still others believe that it's the social contacts that spirituality provides (when expressed in groups such as Churches, Synagogues and Mosques.)  Most don't know it, but it is true, that prayerful silence or prayerful passive quiet, prayerful supplication have very positive effects on human health and healing. It is my belief that during these times (and notice I say prayerful) is when the clutter of the conscious and the unconscious is at its lowest, and the benevolent influence of the sub-unconscious is at its extreme. Prayerful attitudes imply a different mind set from non-prayerful attitudes -- the mind set is that the person believes in a Creator.  My belief is that the explanations most still offer give credit to "something" that is relegated primarily to the physical attribute of humankind (much as the conscious/unconscious model closed itself off from the spiritual). My position is that unless the spiritual dimension (the sub-unconscious) is factored in, there won't be much good come from just being quiet, silent or idle supplicating -- expecting health or healing mostly from chemicals (that all have side effects) or purely physical treatment. I believe that more recidivism results when there is a lack of using the spiritual dimension -- and especially not using it prayerfully.
 
However one tries to rationalize that we are free to express our spiritual dimension, we are not. There are obstacles preventing its use. The obstacles appear to be from at least three sources: (1) Societal obstacles (laws) -- laws against expressing one's faith whenever, wherever with no hindrances. The separation of Church and State is an illusion -- foisted on us by badly interpreted laws. No where in the United States Constitution does it state that religious expression is forbidden -- actually, it is demanded not to be. It only states that there will not be a National or State selected religion or religious expression. Do the research, you'll see. I get so upset when I hear such rabid statements and expressed concerns that mere prayer at a public gathering, or at a school assembly are forbidden because it is against the "Constitutional" demand that there be separation of Church and State. Isn't it strange that it is against the "separation of Church and State law" to have the word God mentioned in public speeches when it is part of the oath taken when a person testifies in court -- or when a President is sworn in at his inauguration? On every currency bill are the words" In God we trust", and it's part of the Pledge of Allegiance to the United States of America. Why is is so frightening to some to mention God, or beseech His help to get us through the stress and distress we suffer fo often? I don't know about such hypocrisy. (2) Therapist obstacles: Not wanting to mess around with value systems, most therapists steer away from talking about, or dealing with a patient's religious beliefs -- or their spiritual beliefs, period. Also, most are "products" of the "closed-end" therapy training (conscious/unconscious) paradigms. However, more therapists than before are recognizing and instituting spirituality into their models -- a healthy sign. (3)Then, there are client or patient obstacles: lack of knowledge of spiritual importance, lack of family values based on religious tenets, rebellion against church doctrine, growing into "new age" beliefs and poor modeling by not only peers, but those in position to influence.  These are some of the obstacles that interfere with our expressing our most important spiritual dimension -- our contact with our Creator. There are others, I'm sure; and other persons have listed them. Research will turn them up.